Life is a performance and there is no real love in human nature?

The essence of life: is it a performance?

In the real world, we often play different roles: in the family, we are children, parents, partners; in the workplace, we are employees, leaders, colleagues; in social situations, we are friends, partners, and even competitors. Whether in love, career, or daily interactions, people often unconsciously adjust their words and deeds to cater to the environment, gain recognition, and achieve their goals. This makes many people start to think -Is life just a carefully planned performance?

Is it true that human nature is incapable of true love? This sentence sounds cold and heartless, but if we think about it carefully, we will find that the establishment and maintenance of many relationships are indeed inseparable from the consideration of interests. Love, kindness, loyalty, these highly respected values may only be part of the operation of society, rather than a pure and unconditional existence.

Kindness can be twisted kindness

In social interactions, many people are taught to be kind, but reality often tells us thatExcessive kindness can become a burden or even a tool to be exploited.

Some people say that true kindness is not given without reservation, but shown appropriately at the right time. However, in some cases, kindness is even distorted into hypocrisy, a means to gain recognition, avoid conflict, or even achieve personal goals. For example:

• "Consideration" in the workplace often means a higher workload.
• "Sacrifice" in a relationship is sometimes a way for the other party to control you.
• "Tolerance" in social situations may become an opportunity for others to repeatedly test your bottom line.

This kind of "twisted kindness" is not truly selfless, but has a certain purpose, and in some cases, even becomes a performance.

How women view "life is a performance"

If we want to estimate the proportion of women who agree that "life is a performance and human nature is essentially without true love", the actual situation may vary depending on factors such as culture, social environment, and individual experience. However, from the perspective of psychology, sociology, and real-life observation, we can make the following classifications and inferences:

1. Absolute Identifiers (20% – 30%)

These women fully accept the view that "human nature has no love and kindness is just a performance", and even understand it well, and actively use these rules to gain benefits. They may be:

• Realist, believing that society is a place where the strong prey on the weak and that feelings are just bargaining chips.
• High social intelligence, good at manipulating people's hearts and minds, and is adept at handling situations in the workplace, relationships, and social circles.
• The Femme Fatale, willing to learn and use hypocritical strategies to seek better living conditions for themselves.

These people usually don't admit their thoughts publicly, but in action, they have become "players of life" and are well versed in the art of "performance."

2. Subconscious Identifier (50% – 60%)

These women may not express their agreement with this view explicitly, but they have already accepted the fact that "human nature is based on interests" in their behavior, but they still have certain moral or emotional illusions. For example:

• They may still believe that certain feelings are real, but when reality tells them that "love is also part of interests", they will gradually accept it.
• They may advocate kindness on the surface, but they know in their hearts that true kindness will often be exploited in the real world, so they will not easily expose their weaknesses.
• They are reserved in their emotions and interpersonal relationships and avoid giving too much because they know that the world will not unconditionally reward their sincerity.

In other words, they don't actively "act," but they know the rules of the game and participate when necessary.

3. People who hold idealistic beliefs (10% – 20%)

This type of women truly believe that "the world is full of love and human nature is good". They may be:

• People who have received a good family education and grew up in a relatively simple environment have less understanding of social reality.
• Still hold on to romanticism and believe that unconditional love and trust can be established between people.
• They have strong moral values and are unwilling to accept the fact that "life is a performance", even if reality continues to challenge their beliefs.

These people are usually more vulnerable because their "purity" is often exploited by hypocrites. They may be the ones who are most easily deceived, emotionally exploited, and morally kidnapped, but they still choose to believe that "there is a good side to human nature."

Comprehensive speculation: The proportion of women who agree that "life is a performance"

If we estimate according to the above classification:

• Absolutely agree: 20% – 30%
• Subconscious Identifiers: 50% – 60%
• Those who totally disagree: 10% – 20%

In other words, at least women from **70% – 90%** would agree to some extent that "human nature has no love and life is a performance", but the degree is different.

Among them, the proportion of women who truly disagree and still firmly believe that love is unconditional will probably not exceed 10% – 20%, and as they grow older and gain more experience, most of them will eventually begin to accept reality.

If we expand the scope to include society as a whole (including men), the proportions may change, but the core conclusions remain:Most people, either voluntarily or forced, will eventually accept that "life is essentially a game of exchanging interests."

Facing reality vs. holding on to faith

Is life a performance? Is human nature really loveless? The answers to these questions may depend on each person's worldview, experience, and understanding of reality.

Some people choose to be the controllers of the game, some choose to go with the flow, and some are willing to believe that even if the reality is cruel, there is still true love.

perhaps,The best way is not to blindly accept that "life is a performance" or to blindly insist that "human nature is good", but to find a balance between reality and ideals so that you will neither become a victim nor lose your yearning for beauty.

Conclusion: Unite real people to build a pure and kind world

1. Our scarcity requires unity

In this world full of hypocrisy and performance, there may be only a few people who truly believe in love and kindness. Precisely because we are so rare, we must unite together to prevent the truth from being buried and pure kindness from being distorted. We cannot let the indifference and deception of the world devour the light in our hearts, but we must protect the true kindness with firm belief.

2. A distorted society needs correct thinking to change

This society is full of emotions manipulated by interests and interpersonal relationships dominated by disguises, and we must be the ones who break the situation. We cannot be brainwashed, we cannot be numb, and we cannot let illusions become new truths. Only if we insist on spreading correct ideas and awakening those who are blinded by hypocrisy, can the world change. We must help them get out of the hypocritical performance and find their true and complete self.

3. Use sincerity and kindness to influence and subvert falsehood

True love, joy, and peace are not performed, but come from the true resonance of the soul. We must influence the world with our own integrity and kindness, so that those who have become accustomed to false performances can regain their pure and kind nature. We cannot let indifference become the norm, but we must infect more people with love and sincerity, so that they realize that true happiness does not come from manipulation, but from inner freedom and peace.

4. Work together to build a world full of warmth and light

The world needs to change, and we, as people who still believe in love and kindness, must become the drivers of this change. We must unite and support each other to build a society that is truly full of warmth and light. Every person who believes in true love and kindness is a light in this world, and when these lights come together, they are enough to illuminate the darkness and change the trajectory of the world.

Let us unite and become a force for change to influence, guide and awaken, so that the world can return to purity, goodness and truth!

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